Hello everyone,
A couple of weeks ago I had two old co-workers contact me via email. One was looking for help filling a spot at his company and asked if I knew anyone that might fit the bill. The other just emailed to say hello. I then realized that it had been a while since I had contacted several of my old co-worker friends. I sent out ten emails to touch base. Most of them emailed me back to catch up. One really stuck out.
You see, she emailed me back to say she had sent me a FB message a few hours before, and I obviously hadn’t read it yet. I thought it was odd that she knew I hadn’t read it. As it turns out, the email was about a good friend of ours that no longer works there and was recently hospitalized with inoperable cancer. She went by to see him, and he asked about me and several other people he had lost contact with throughout the years. I called the friend that sent the email and talked to her for a while to find out the details. I then called the daughter of the friend in the hospital and asked how he was doing. She said that he was doing well and handed the phone to her father.
It was amazing how upbeat he was during the conversation. We talked for almost a half hour, and I can’t remember the last time I’ve laughed so hard. He’s a great guy, and I’m going to call him again tonight to see how he’s doing.
The name of this Tuesday post each week is Sweet Tea Tuesday, so I have to tell a story about my friend. He’s a good ole boy, and loves sweet tea.
I needed someone to go with me to see my customer, who is located about 90 minutes north of Toronto. I asked if he would come, and he said he’d love to. We flew to Toronto and drove up that evening. We stopped at a little restaurant on the way, and when the server asked about drinks, he said that he would have sweet tea. Well, I started laughing because I knew they wouldn’t have any.
Then she said, “Would you like lemon with your sweet tea?”
I was floored. He told her that he would like lemon, and asked why I had laughed. I said that I’d never been to a Canadian restaurant that served sweet tea. The server then returned with a glass of ice and a can of Lipton sweet tea with lemon. Okay, TECHNICALLY this is sweet tea, but let’s just say it wasn’t what he expected.
He looked at the can of tea, looked at me, and then smiled at the server and said, “Uh ma’am, I think I’ll just have a cup of coffee.”
I almost fell out of my chair I was laughing so hard.
When I talked with him last week, I told him that I loved that night, and when I recounted the story we laughed about it all over again.
So how about you? Have you recently talked with any old friends that you’ve been out of touch with for a while? If not, I challenge you to look in your Outlook, old address book or Rolodex, or dig out your high school annual and pick a few people to get back in touch with. Let us know how it goes.
Here’s a nice tall glass of iced sweet tea to quench your thirst while you do it. ~clink~
Perfect post Kerry, I hope a lot of people look into getting in touch with old friends, it is a shame to lose touch with people.
Last year at this time my father passed away, and coincidentally a friend from my childhood lost his mother. We had not talked for over thirty years, but I had always missed his conversation. We got together over email and facebook, and now talk every couple of weeks. The circle that was broken so many years before is finally complete, and I am grateful to have picked up this thread again.
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I’m glad you enjoyed it, Mary Jo. I’m also glad you made a lost connection with your friend. ~clink~
I do on occasion get in touch with old coworkers although in most cases they devolve into rehashing very old ground. Maybe someday there will be more. Good post, Kerry, I hope your friend pulls through. ~clink~
Thanks Gene. I hope he does too. I know what you mean about dredging up old scars with some people. I’m more interested in what they’re doing now than listening to complaints from the past. I’m assuming that’s what you’re referring to. Thanks ROWbro. ~clink~
For some reason I find it very hard to get in contact with old friends. Facebook has made it tremendously easier, but for some reason it’s awkward for me. Shyness is a factor for sure! Glad you had such a good time chatting! =)
I find it interesting that sometimes I’ll get FB requests from people I know but wasn’t really friends with. They were more acquaintances than anything. I still enjoy talking with them, but it strikes me as odd sometimes. I rarely friend someone unless I was pretty good friends with them. FB has an interesting dynamic.
It’s so wonderful to get in touch with people again, isn’t it? Thanks for sharing the sweet tea story. I laughed too, because Lipton doesn’t touch real sweet tea. Not even close. We’re from the land of plain tea, and my son is in the service stationed in a southern state right now. He laughs because he can’t go to a restaurant and get plain tea…it’s all sweet tea!
LOL – That’s right. ~clink~ He’ll get used to it, and then when he comes back he’ll want sweet tea.
Love this post! I am so glad that you reached out to your old friend directly. I can imagine that your voice and words of comfort and laughter really cheered him up. I’ve definitely got a few old friends to look up and there’s no better time of year than Christmas to do that so thanks for the reminder…keep us posted on your friend and we’ll keep him in our prayers!
He’s out of the hospital and went to church Sunday and saw his grandchildren in a Christmas play. That’s pretty cool. In reality, he cheers me up when I talk with him because he’s so upbeat. Great guy. Thanks for stopping by, Nat.
What a great story AND reminder! Wishing your friend a speedy recovery/long remission.
Thanks Raelyn. I hope he does too.
What a sweet story, and I’m glad you got in touch with your friend. I once ordered sweet tea in a restaurant in Nevada (didn’t think it was tooo much of a stretch) and the waitress said sure and brought me hot tea with sugar cubes. Bleh. I thanked her and requested water.
LOL. Not exactly what you were looking for, huh? Thanks for stopping by. ~clink~
What a great story, Kerry! It’s late, so if I think of a story to tell, I’ll check back in. Good night!
Thx Kathy. Have a good one. ~clink~